Why does it matter who you spend the most time with, and what influence do we have on each other? Humans are masters of mimicry, so we naturally start acting and thinking more like those we spend the most time with.

People are Mirrors

We all have private and public versions of ourselves. Most opinions about others are projections of our values and beliefs. They reveal your triggers, strengths, and attitudes about yourself and other people in general.

Reading Reflections

Strong emotions and reactions around others hold hidden meaning about ourselves. They can reveal wounds for healing or blocks that need clearing. Practice accepting everything you notice about yourself and others.

Beliefs and Behaviors

Beliefs are formed when you agree with something and it becomes part of your identity. You first share your caregiver’s views, then their social circle, and later your own. Expanding your circle means expanding your mind.

Conclusion

Your social identity is a tool for building self-awareness and emotional control. Spend time with people aligned with the values and morals you choose to embody. Engage with new people to broaden your view.